TL;DR: BF and I have been together for 2 months. He always flakes on plans but claims he wants to be in a relationship with me. Never wants to go on fun dates. Feeling more alone then when I was single.
Hey guys, I’m 20 and have been seeing my bf for around 2 months now. I feel more alone with him than I was when I was single.
One thing about him is that he always tells me we are going to hangout later in the day but never follows through with the plans, or changes them. And then when we do hang out, he just wants to sit around and watch movies. He always tells me he’s too broke to go on real dates and stuff but then spends money on other things. I have tried talking to him before and asked him if he wanted to end things and he always says no, he wants to be with me and blah blah.
Idk if it’s my anxiety or if it’s just my intuition but I really feel like he doesn’t like me. Like maybe he just wants me around when he’s bored. He doesent make me his priority. It just doesent make sense.
What would you do in this situation? Thx all <
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>I feel more alone with him than I was when I was single.
Sounds like you’re better off single than with him, then.
>What would you do in this situation?
Having experienced it before, I would leave. There’s no sense trying to make something work that isn’t working.