So I(25F) am not sexually active right now, and I don’t know when I will be, since I take time to vibe with someone enough to be ready for that. So masturbation is kind of like my only outlet. I masturbate almost every day, and if I skip it for even one day I feel so horny the whole day. It feels like a constant itch on my mind. I also end up not being able to sleep that well at night. Sometimes I feel the urge more than once-sometimes I masturbate and a few hours later I feel horny again. The problem is I don’t like masturbating all that much now because it feels so mechanical. I feel like I’m doing it out of compulsion rather than desire and it takes the fun out of it. I also keep running out of fantasies and things to masturbate to. I don’t want to go back to watching porn as I used to have a bit of an unhealthy fixation on that.
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Same boat, in my case i masturabte too much out of stress.
There’s NOTHING wrong with you! I’ve been this way my whole life and I’ve grown to embrace it. Masturbation and sex is my outlet, it’s my drug. When I don’t have a partner I masturbate, and yeah, I’m still horny afterwards too. So my advice is 1. embrace and try edging more, more edging == bigger orgasm == more satisfaction. Porn is so 10 years ago, it’s becoming so toxic.
I’m in an 8 year relationship, our sex life remains healthy but I still masturbate daily. I love the feeling of orgasms but sometimes it does become mechanical so I try to mix things up by watching porn or just simply using my imagination.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you, in fact since you’re not sexually active I’d suggest trying to go all day without it and only do it before you sleep. Watch porn, use only your imagination, & even give phone sex a shot. When I was single some of the best orgasms I had were from phone sex. My gf and I are in an open relationship now (both of us talk to other girls) it’s strange to me and I might not act on it but I may give phone sex another try because me cumming from it was so good.
Definitely give it a shot, it can mix things up for you