Me and my partner had rough sex when it happened. With a little force, he thrusted unintentionally into the wrong hole and the pain was one of the worst I ever had in my life. The next days my butthole hurt, I believe it was kinda purplish, but maybe it was my imagination.
So now, many months later, I feel like I am unable to do anal ever again, even completely by myself. It has become too tight, even after relaxing, stretching and all that stuff.
So I’m wondering if something really teared that day or it’s just my mind? Anyone had the same issue?
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You may have some scar tissue, which is tougher and tighter than regular skin because it’s scarred. I’m not sure what could be your issue, but it could also be a mental block that even though you are attempting to do anal again, your mind still jumps back to the “traumatic” incident. You could try talking to your doctor or gyno or maybe a therapist to see what the issue is but there does seem to be an issue for you.
Best of luck.
It’s probably a mental block. Your sphincter has two rings of muscle out one is voluntary and can be controlled by you inner one is involuntary and holds everything in even when you don’t think about it. That’s the one that can give you trouble. Try experimenting with much smaller stuff like a finger something that technically wouldn’t hurt that much and kind of just get your ass used to it. Small steps. Your brain is trying to protect you and that’s great. It’s time to let go a little by tiny little. By yourself.