I met this girl at college where people go to socialize, I realized we had very similar interests and had amazing conversations.
I got her snap and we’ve been texting a bit although I am usually the one to initiate conversation but she responds very quickly.
I’m 18 and this is honestly the first time I’ve actually wanted to escalate things with someone so I’m not exactly sure what to do or how to move forward
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Tell her your secrets. Personal, impersonal, financial, all the deets. She needs it all! In this crazy world? What battery goes into your 9 volt?
Awe man I remember my college days lol so many crushes man you guys can have so much fun together right now I would say if you live inside a dorm invite her over to yours for a movie night or perhaps go to hers. Also you can always do a project based on her for me I really liked this one girl and I had a photography project who better to hang out with and take pictures of than her? Other than that If movies sound a little to extreme for the type of girl she is you can always go to a college event they usually have alot
Just do things together, dates, hangouts, go to events or shows together, etc. At your own pace start being more flirty, do increasingly romantic things like star gazing. Find opportunities to hold her hand. Etc. (Dancing creates a pretty easy environment to hold her hand, like in between dances)
This could be over the course of a few months or a single week, depends on a lot of things.
Once you feel like there’s an elephant in the room (could be as early as your 2nd or 3rd date) ask her if she wants to date more seriously. Discuss if that means exclusive or not, etc.
I personally don’t like to kiss till we’re exclusive, but that’s a pretty conservative view. I just want kissing to be something special that I do with girls I really care about.
This is all based on my experience and personality. Your experience might be very different.
Hope that helps.