Hi everyone, I came here with a simple question that I felt like, wasn’t fully answered for me. This will come across as stupid. But I am just GENUINELY curious and wanna learn.
I understand how much a woman can stretch is based on arousal and whatnot. BUT… So, say if a woman hook up consistently with dudes who are super thick and long, does her vagina become overall more loose overtime? From what I’ve read, it does return to it’s “normal” tightness after awhile. But, does the overall tightness(the “normal” tightness) changes permanently given enough sex with big penises? There’s things like childbirth but that’s once in a lifetime thing usually. So I assume the body can “heal” from that as it doesn’t happen often.
Sorry for this stupid question, I’m just genuinely curious about it!
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>does her vagina become overall more loose overtime?
No. Simple as.
Think of it like a muscle, if you stretch your legs to be able to split that doesn’t mean your leg muscles gets “loose”, you’re just more flexible.
Since vagina is basically a muscle it’s the other way around, the more she uses it the more control over the tightness she gets
Speaking as someone with a pelvic floor issue (which is usually the muscle guys talk about in terms of tightness) while the muscle will almost never become “loose” if a woman is used to bigger guys, internally there will be a lot less pain or discomfort since the muscle in that area will already know how to accommodate it.
Unless she’s had some serious damage down there, everything will go back to normal once the arousal is gone, regardless of her partners size.
It’s like being an athlete. If you don’t exercise much, a marathon might seem impossible to you, but if your someone who enjoys running, a marathon is a lot less intimidating.
The thing is designed to pass a baby. No dick is ever going to make a dent. If anything, women get a bit tighter for 4-8 hours after sex.
Depends what you mean. Does it physically become “looser”? No. But like with someone who does the splits everyday, the brain will learn to relax those muscles more and more so it might *feel* looser unless she consciously squeezes. And like with male death grip, she can become dependent on extreme stimulation and not feel much *at first* with something more modestly sized. But that’s only if she is exclusively using large toys or having sex with large penises for a long time, and even then it’s not permanent.
Does the Vagina get accustomed to having a large penis or dildo? The answer yes
Does that mean the vagina is loose or permanently stretched?
The answer is no.
When a woman becomes aroused her vaginal canal expands and gets stretchier. It usually shrinks back to normal size in a short amount of time after sex with a large penis. The tightness doesn’t really change
Now if a woman uses big dildos or has sex consistently with partners with a big penis she will learn to relax quicker (making penetration easier) because she is used to it. But her tightness never changed
Don’t think so. Wife is not super tight but tight enough for me and my girth. Her ex was bigger than me and she says it didn’t make any difference. My ex was the same