Just a venting post. I have been on Bumble for quite some time, and came across a guy who I felt had great qualities: smart and seemed to have similar qualities in terms of what he is also looking for (a relationship). I text him and he says that I am his type and we just have a general conversation over text. Days later, he ghosts me….doesn’t respond to text…until I ask him if he is interested or not. Then he finally replies and says something along the lines of needing someone to match him “sexually” and “pleasing him” etc.
I am assuming this means a hook-up or something casual, but really what is he indicating? Purely sex? I am really ashamed of guys who lie in their profile and mention they are looking for a relationship when they are clearly not. Women need to be respected more.
I should add that he started asking a lot of sexual questions and things he would like to do, etc. Just didn’t seem to have any respect towards women.
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Sorry that you had such an experience. In some ways, think of it that you dodged a bullet.
>I should add that he started asking a lot of sexual questions and things he would like to do, etc.
Not to point out the obvious, but that’s pretty clear communication on what he wanted.
I would be careful. A lot of guys are just putting relationships in their bio to try and attract unsuspecting people. But hey, atleast in this case the trash to itself out
I guess he only writes that profile to attract people so he can ask those questions, to be fair no girl would match with thirsty profile.