So not too out of the ordinary, but just as the title suggests, I’ve never dated anyone. Some might say I was spared the cringiness of a hs relationship, but I kind of wish I had something to go off of.

I’ve been on the bumble app for a while now. I’ve met the shitty, the nice, and still just really haven’t clicked with anyone. Recently I matched with this guy who was flirty from the get go. His profile said he was looking for something casual, so when he suggested we hang out only a day or two later and very minimal messaging, I know I can assume what he’s expecting out of it.

But I’m still going? He’s really cute, but I’m not sure about anything else about him. Im definitely not about to put out for someone that easily (also I’m on my period lol). Honestly, I’m not really looking for a relationship, I just want to explore things and see what what happens? Maybe? He’s out of my league for sure, which is what is making me over think everything. I’ve had… not so favorable relations with some guys before, and I’m also very socially anxious. My therapist is always telling me to not keep myself from doing things just because I’m afraid of doing it, and I’m trying to apply it here but I still feel like throwing up

I’m being safe ofc, letting people in my life know where I am and who I’m meeting, etc.

Anyways, I would just like to hear some words of encouragement maybe? If possible? 😭

1 comment
  1. Looking for “casual” doesn’t necessarily mean jes looking for a one nighter. Some people put that to try to not come off desperate.

    And no one is out of your league. He wouldn’t be contacting you if he didn’t find you attractive.

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