using my vibrator with my boyfriend often allows me to orgasm within literally about 30 seconds lol. sometimes i wanna make it last longer, so i’ll “edge” as such and slow down, try and hold off, then go again. but sometimes, when i do this, i go back to it and can’t finish at all 🙁
can’t tell if it has become oversensitive or what, but does edging just not work for me? it feels like if i don’t do it straight away when my body is ready, then i miss out entirely.
any advice?
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Personally I’ve finished quicker with a vibrator. Maybe 10 seconds. So you’re not too quick.
Vibrators can numb your clit if it’s too strong and you’re not used to it.
My advice is to cum as soon as you can and focus on trying to cum again.
You are just fine and normal. Everything takes practice and time. Just enjoy it!
You can try without the toy, only oral.. i guess that will give you time
Put the toy down. Have him use a hand. Or you can