First, met randomly at a coffee shop. Randomly asked me for help with something and said she thought she knew me from somewhere. Then she would blush when I would engage a convo with her. Introduced myself, got her number and then texts/dating later. First date, had a good/fun time with no sex. The second date, same. The third date, she felt comfortable with me in which she invited me to her place ( had protected sex). Same for the next 3 times we met after. She is seeing no other man and only seems to have interest with me. But the other day, she told me “she doesn’t normally do this, but you can go in raw (without condom)”. She told me to make sure to pull out though as she doesn’t want a situation with pregnancy. So, I did a few strokes and then told her it felt great but lets put the cover on. She agreed and felt more comfortable afterwards.
The question is why would she want me inside her raw? Is this an indication that she was that sexually into me? Or is this a trick some women play for long term relationship commitment with a potential pregnancy?
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It could’ve been that she was very attracted to you and wanted even more intimacy, but the worry of pregnancy worried both of you more than expected. Not everything a woman does has to have some sinister connotation behind it.
Most women have told me that it feels better for them to, when there’s no condom involved. I think she just wanted to see what it felt like.
Almost every woman I’ve dated over a period of months have asked me to stop using the condom at some point. When I asked, they all told me it feels better everything the condom, and they felt it would be safe to do it without the condom with me. So this might be the other side of the coin.