I went to a bluegrass show yesterday and met a very friendly and pretty girl outside the venue. At first we just got stoned together. Later she came back and bought a beer from me and we smoked another one of her joints. I learned we had more than one in common and enjoyed her company but that was it. Sure I would have been down to hang out again, but asking for a number just feels so intrusive with someone you hardly know. I get worried that I’ll ruin her time and be a creep by asking to get her contact info. When she walked away though the thought flashed through my mind that I dropped the ball.
The truth is, I really like being laid back and taking things slowly, but I struggle to find someone who is interested in me and is ok with taking things slow.
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If you’re both enjoying each other’s company, why would asking for a number ruin that?
If you are nervous about asking for her number, try just giving her yours. You still get to be your cool laid back self, and there is no pressure on her or potential awkwardness.
Hopefully you run into her again in the future!
How else are you going to see her again? Idk, maybe you could’ve asked for her Instagram or something?
Dude I ask strangers for their number if she boughtbuba beer and spent time with you ues you should have got her number she was definitely interested.