I (f) and my current (m) partner have been seeing each other casually over the past month or so. Some back have only had a few partners and the first partner coerced me into bj’s that I didn’t want to give and we had great sex overall, second partner I didn’t find attractive but we still had pretty good sex and they never pushed any boundaries.
I feel as if I know nothing about what I like sexually and my current partner has had several partners and they just won’t tell me what they are into either. While I have a had little experience I also will communicate what I like.
I will openly ask them about what they like but they won’t tell me. Saying that they want me to explore it with them like I get were basically fwb’s but don’t we need to work on it together?
I almost rather them know what they like and I experience it together and I tell them that I don’t enjoy it myself. Any thoughts or ideas how to go about it?
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You could play a load of sexual games and challenges you can find loads online. Then explore this all together. Discuss after each one and the more you talk the better things will get
Is he inexperienced because I’m 25m and half the guys I know don’t know what they like or have never explored