What is something you had to give up doing in order to make space for a greater relationship to be possible?

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1. Working in remote place that would have made me “bad, mad or sad” eventually, even though I loved it at the time. I can’t maintain relationships while I’m in a totally different world. I had to consciously chose a more regular life to have a relationship and a family.

2. being alone. haha gladly!

3. Wanting things my way.

4. My need for control. I had to learn how to trust other people to not fuck me over.

5. Spending time and energy on dating people who didn’t treat me right or who wanted a different kind of relationship than I did.