When relationships end, do guys masturbate over their ex partners years later?

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1. Until the end of time

2. I just sit in the dark listening to music feeling like I have barb wire wrapped around my throat

3. Sometimes. Not often. Masturbate everyday the things you’ll masturbate to over thousands of sessions will include lots of stuff.

4. To whoever arouse me honestly.

5. Big maybe. Depends on how vivid that memory is

6. I don’t do that.

7. Yes. But I would never tell anyone I did or do.

8. not the one that cheated on me

9. If it was a significant love then no, as that only throws more light on the physical distance between my ex partner and I. If it was a short, fun fling then perhaps.

10. Depends on the ex. Some, yes. Others, not at all.

11. My ex used to give me a blow job, and then keep sucking as I climaxed and swallowed….giving me some of the strongest orgasms I’ve ever had and have had to this day. While I’m happy with my current girlfriend, she thinks cum is gross in her mouth and therefore, that insane pleasure (and fetish I’ve had since I can remember) is no longer possible. So yes, sometimes when I masturbate I think of my ex, not because I miss her, but because of the specific sex act I no longer have access to.

12. Yes. You downgrade from girlfriend to spank bank.

13. I have. But I haven’t had much play since then tbh.

14. I have. Some of them were super hot and I don’t see a ton of beautiful women in everyday life. And porn doesn’t do it for me anymore, my mind is cooler for that.

15. Not here, too many fish in the ocean.

16. Depends how hot the sex was and how bad the residual feelings are. The hottest stuff won’t do it if she brutally broke my heart

17. Yes, instead of watching porn I sometimes like to replay certain sexual experiences like a movie in my head and then get myself off thinking about all of the ones that turned me on the most

18. Hell yeah. That’s free porn living in my head. And I don’t even have to pretend it’s me I see in the porn

19. Not the person, the erotica of a moment past. No more than that.

20. I used to, then one time I ran into an ex and realized what id been masturbating to didn’t really resemble her at all. I mostly use porn these days

21. I don`t. But sometimes I think about them during sex to last longer.

22. Yes. Still use our videos. She knows and is cool with it. Will delete when I get a new gf

23. Only if she doesn’t lock the back door and I’m really quiet about it. It became harder when she got a dog…

24. Nice try, current girlfriend

25. Of course. Though some more than others.

    But it can also be any moment I felt sexy. That 10/10 I was flirting with at a bar years ago, the MILF that jumped me in my car after a date, a drunk chick feeling my arms up when I was jacked etc

    Memory and imagination are a potent combo.