I really want to try this. I brought it up once years ago as something we should try and she freaked out and called it gay. I never brought it up again but want to attempt once more.

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  1. You could send her a [link to a pegging positive article](https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26928955/men-getting-pegged/), that also debunks the myth, that you need to be gay to enjoy pegging and ask her if she would like to try it. Given that she had such a strong reaction in the past it might be better to thread lightly first and ask her if she would be ok with stimulating your prostate while giving you a bj. This could be done on the outside, holding a wand against the area below your testicles, or her putting a finger inside you and rubbing over the bulge area. If you both become more at ease with it, she will associate the practise with stimulating your prostate, rather than a homosexual practise (not that there is something wrong with it, but it is her fear, that you are into that and might leave her for a male partner).

  2. You could ask her to listen to this podcast

    [https://peggingparadise.com/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/](https://peggingparadise.com/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/)

    You can get good tips at r/StraightPegging

    You can explain that Gay is sexual attraction vs a sex act between a man and a woman in completely heterosexual

    You can explain that the male prostate is in there and can give you incredible orgasms

    Do you do any other butt play? If not, it might be a bit of a leap.

  4. Sometimes this can be a tougher one than it should be.

    Firstly you have to educate your wife so that she learns that being gay is not synonymous with enjoying anal stimulation. This can be a long road.

    Then you need to determine if there is in room in her mindset to try pegging. I recently had a lengthy chat with a lady who was quite emphatic that this was a hard line for her. She gets the idea, has no judgement about what her boyfriend wants but simply says the idea of her using a dildo on him is a turn off. She simply won’t do it. And this is a lady who I thought didn’t have any hard lines.

    It might just be something she won’t do. How does she feel about using her fingers and a prostate massage?

  5. When you figure it out ask me coz I want to peg my husband and I don’t know how to approach it and I’m pretty sure he will say no it’s gay

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