We’ve been dating for about 3 months, and it’s the healthiest best relationship I have ever been in (considering my last relationships were pretty toxic)
He’s been my best friend for years, and when we first starting dating the sex was pretty good. He isn’t as experienced as me, but he would still tease me and make it fun.
Now the teasing and role play ish things don’t happen anymore, and all of a sudden, he can’t last longer than 8 mins.
I’m not sure how to help him last longer, or what I should do.
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Buy a numbing spray for his penis.
did he feel bad?
Don’t buy sprays…. He just needs more practice. Prolly getting to caught up in his head and over excited.
He’s probably watching porn.
It’s usually all psychological when it comes to lasting issues. And when he busts quick, he’ll get even more self conscious and the cycle can be hard to break. Maybe there’s something on his mind? Sometimes going a few days without sex will make a dude bust quicker too.
Have him eat a lot of carbs and electrolytes so he can have more energy, if he has energy after the initial 8 minutes, then he may wanna go again. I don’t know what else to suggest sorry.
Hope this helps though. :<
Tackle it head on. Tell him all his sexual flaws in a nice way. Ask him to work in it. For premature ejaculation there’s exercises he can do. But don’t mock him or laugh. It makes the premature ejaculation worse