what makes a relationship exclusive?

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1. Have a confirmation via conversation.
   Assuming “makes a ass outa you and me” never leave it to assuming and mind reading

2. Never assume anything. Have a specific conversation.

3. Have the conversation

4. When you both talk about it and both decide to be

5. Specific conversation on what exclusivity is and what expectations + boundaries there r & what will not ge tolerated. If not on the same exact page Don’t give them ur heart and don’t be surprised when hurt

6. From the post it sounds like you don’t know what the word exclusive means. It means you two agree not to seek or entertain an intimate relationship with others. Just doing things that couples do doesn’t automatically mean either of you are solely committed to the other.

7. Certainly ask the question and get verbal confirmation that you’re on the aame page.

   Never assume anything, and definitely dont do relationship-y stuff without the confirmation

8. It’s really a general thing, for me it already happened when we decided to continue communicating after the first exchange.. Of course it isn’t official at that point, but I’ll walk away if I find out I’m just one of the horses being bet on 🙂

   At some point tho, you’d want to do what I call the “expectations” conversations, what are you expecting from each other and where is this going

9. In my opinion it can just be assumed after a certain point. The issue is that that’s inherently risky and you can’t know you’re both on the same page, so you need to have a chat about it