Have you ever been in an argument with someone, and you’ve figured out mid-argument, that you might be in the wrong and need to stop. But it’s like if you keep going, you feel like you validate yourself out of being embarrassed (which you are). Or when you get insecure and are prying to see if someone is thinking something negative about you (“Is there something wrong?”) and you just keep going over and over even though you want to stop, but you just cant hush. Once again it’s like if you continue, it will validate you out of being embarrassed or something. I’ve been doing better at this.

I’m trying to articulate what I’ve felt, and I feel like that was why I was doing it, although I don’t know for sure. Thanks.

2 comments
  1. All I’m going to say is it is a sign of intelligence to admit when you are wrong so you can learn from it

  2. I think if you go into arguments in a calm way it s easy to admit they might have a point. If you re loud and passionate about your argument then you will look a bit stupid when you admit you re wrong. That s why you should try and be calm

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