I dont get it. Weve been dating for about six months and this has never been a problem before. We’ve always had a great relationship, but so much happened now. I graduated high school, got into college almost immediately… I moved states. So now, I’m in a “limbo” with most relationships. I’m either feeling distant from the people I used to be close to due to physical distance, or feeling distant to the new people because I’m just getting to know them now. He’s the only exception. We’ve always been long distance, so there hasn’t been any change in our dynamic. He’s the only person I feel close to now, and lately I’ve been wanting to be with him all the time. And I feel a strange amount of sadness whenever he needs to leave. It’s already causing a strain on our relationship. We never fought before that. But now we keep having misunderstandings, and the fact I’ve been irritable lately hasn’t helped. And now I’m getting so much relationship anxiety, worrying about everything. I love him so much, I don’t want to hurt him and I don’t want to put this weight on him. I don’t want him to feel solely responsible for my happiness. I know where that leads, and I’ve been so worried about us going down that path that it’s making me even more anxious, and that’s causing a cycle. I’ve always thought of myself as mature when it came to relationships, but I’m at a loss now.
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I am honestly in the same boat I am dying for her attention 24/7
I feel anxious when I don’t talk to her often. I understand how you feel.
The only thing to do is work on yourself but that’s way easier said then done. I am a hypocrite in this moment tho 😂
I can’t help me self from obsessing over my girl friend. Good luck with the relationship!
Remember Communication is very important. Be honest with him about how you feel. Or don’t and stuff it deep down inside.
I hate the feeling I get when a notification pops up and hoping it’s them but come to find out it’s something stupid and not important.
Sounds like Limerence to me