Me 23(M), my GF 20(F) started talking poorly about my family. She started saying how they have never thought about improving our house since it is not in such a good condition, but they had to raise and fund 3 kids, me included.
I live in a country where wages have remained the level of 2008 and the prices have advanced, and she kept talking shit without knowing anything on what they had to endure. She started saying that they never wanted to do anything or achieve anything and just being mere offensive.
I am thinking of breaking up with her, because I do not accept anyone talk poorly about my family.
Any help would be appreciated.
TL DR : My GF started talking poorly about my family and I am thinking of breaking up with her.
3 comments
Leaver her?
This is the easiest post to give advice too in this sub.
You just don’t make fun of someone’s struggles for no reason
You don’t need help. You know that she lacks understanding and empathy. That lack of comprehension will backfire on you in future.
Red flag. Let her go
Sit quietly with yourself with no distractions and really concentrate on what it feels like to be with her. Ponder that feeling. Then concentrate on what it would feel like to be without her. Ponder that. In there is your answer.
But from the outside, it sounds like your gut is telling you to leave, but you’re having a hard time rationalizing it.