Women who play hard to get or have done it, why?

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1. It depends. Are they really playing hard to get or do they just want to be left alone, and the other person just isn’t getting it?

2. I don’t play hard to get, if I’m not showing interest I want to be left alone.

3. My total lack of interest has been misinterpreted as me playing “hard to get” more times than I can count.

4. If someone plays these types of games, they are not mature enough for a relationship.

   But thing is if a woman says she isn’t interested it means to leave her alone. If she comes up and asks why your not chasing her that’s your red flag.

5. bc i wasn’t interested

6. Because I’m a space cadet who grew up as a tomboy and never realize anyone likes me romantically. It isn’t playing hard to get, I just assume you want to be bros

7. I don’t play hard to get, it’s not my fault that I don’t accept all the invitations from the drunk people of the bar or all the weird and nasty texts online. I don’t play hard at all, I just know what I want and I’m not gonna lose precious time with everybody.

8. I can get nervous and seem avoidant when I like someone before they’ve asked me out or told me they like me. But if someone’s shown interest and I reject it, it’s not “playing hard to get”. I’m simply not interested.

9. I’d just freed myself from an abusive relationship and I was scared to date.