Me (25M) Struggling with my (27F) GF trying different positions.
As the title says i’ve been with my gf for almost a year now and we have been having sex let’s say frequently once we are together. However, we have always struggled trying a lot of the regular sex positions.. such as doggy, cow girl, missionary, or being on top of her as she’s laying on her back. What i have noticed and found is that the only positions that would work for her are positions where i penetrate her from behind and the only 3 that worked perfectly are prone-bone, taking her from behind as i’m standing and she’s laying on the bed with her legs down or spooning her from behind and she always has to keep her legs closed and tight for it to work.. and we just do prone bone regularly now. every time i have tried to penetrate in other positions or from the front. It would not work and she would say it is painful for her and we would quit… she is too shy and we mainly have sex in the dark or with very dim lights. So i can’t really have a better look and understand if something is wrong. I have no idea what is the issue as i have had previous relationships and never had such a problem and have tried all mentioned positions successfully. My penis is at around 5 inches so i don’t believe it’s a size issue in me but she has a big butt and thought that is why doggy wouldn’t work in the beginning? I am so confused now and do not want to have a talk with her as she is a shy person once it comes to sex talk and not comfortable discussing sex.. i have once mentioned it as a joke and she said i can’t control my angles? What does that even mean? When i started questioning further she changed the topic. Any idea redditors? Tips? Ever been in such a situation?
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I’d imagine missionary would be easiest on the body so it’s slightly odd unless it’s endo related.
I can’t give you help on angles but maybe asking her while sex if she likes it she’ll come out and tell you. Good luck!
If you’re doing doggystyle, the best position for deep penetration is face down and ass up for maximal exposure. It could also be an erection angle/flexibility thing – I’ve found it harder to do back-facing positions when my partner’s penis points up towards the sky and isn’t flexible.
With the size mentioned and her butt being large. Those are definitely the issues. I bet you skip out often?