there’s this person who added me one day to talk to me for about a story that happened to them and their dad, and i told them that i usually only really text people on instagram if i know them irl. they said that’s fine but they’ve been texting me every day and asking when we can call again. i also told them that 1 on 1 voice chats make me really nervous and yet they still asks regardless.
they were also talking about working together on a video project, yet they want me to do everything and it’s like 25 minutes long… they have also complained about a friend not finishing a project after 6 months yet refuse to learn how to do it themselves. this annoyed me a lot.
they have also bought some games for me. i didnt ask for them but they still bought it so i would feel bad for blocking… how do i get over this? everyone i know says to just block but i’m too scared
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Set up boundaries. When you say no stick to it and reinforce it. Remind then of the boundaries
What about this scares you?