Me and the wife have talked about letting her have a FWB on the side. Now I can’t get the thought out of my head. Just needed to say it out loud.

7 comments

  1. You need to tell her that, before she goes through with it and might irreparably damage your relationship based on what you previously agreed to. Good luck, OP.

  2. I’m not sure if you’re looking for advice. If you are, then my advice is to keep your marriage closed. You both committed to a monogamous relationship. You don’t have to change that commitment if you don’t want to.

  3. Obviously you’re not 100% on board with this which says to me you may need to go to marriage counselling about this because if you now say no she’ll end up resenting you or will end up cheating

    Maybe you need to admit you’re not compatible long term

  4. I was meaning more of I’m extremely excited for it to happen slightly nervous but an excited nervous

  6. Honestly, I’d leave. You’ll never see her the same way. If it’s something that makes you uncomfortable, and something she wants, it’ll be in your head forever.

    Rip the band aid off

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