I’ve[18m] started seeing this girl[19f] just over a week ago, we hit off on the first date and agreed to a second.
During the second date we spent the whole evening together, we spent the night together. Although nothing happened she told me she’s not ready, to which I happily agreed, so we just cuddled all night.
She got out of an abusive relationship and is her first time dating in awhile. Her prior relationship was also her first, they first started dating when she was 14, he was 19 at the time.
When we talked the days after, she told she’s worried about dating me, not that she doesn’t want to, but is scared of being in relationship. She said she’s scared of getting hurt, and hurting me. But said she really likes me and wants to take things slow.
When we talked she opened up a lot, like a lot. She told about all her trauma. When she would tell me I just wanted to hug her, I felt like crying a little bit when she told me some of the shit she went through. A lot of which I know contribute to her feelings relationships and dating.
I guess I’m asking how do I not scare her off? I really like her, I never felt like I do towards her with other girls before and I don’t want to fuck it up.
So I guess I’m asking how do I not fuck things up?
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If i were you i would just go out with her and do a bunch of acitivies and have fun together. If she’s into you it’s just a question of time, sooner or later she will get to know you and feel more comfortable being around a boyfriend (you)