If you’re looking for a serious relationship or dating with purpose and you meet someone who has recently broken up would you date them? There are always chances of getting hurt cause they might back off in few weeks/months or only looking to casually date. I’m in this situation and she says she’s not in the right headspace currently and swamped with work.
Logically I should stop seeing her but as an average human with emotions I obviously want to make this work cause we have same core values and I like her. She says I’m cute, charming and fun but maybe we met at the wrong time.
We’ve been texting for three months now but have met only two times cause we had schedule conflicts. We’re meeting today to see how we really feel seeing each other after few weeks.
Typical situation of stuck between to go with logic or go with emotions.
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Don’t over think it. Just one thing to note. When a girl tells you she’s not ready, don’t try and make her ready. Don’t try to help her to become ready. I wouldn’t necessarily wait for her but keep in contact. Sounds like she knows your interested. One of the hottest things to a girl is when a guy respects her boundaries and will give her space. See how tonight goes and just give her what she needs. That may be space and time.