Kind, chill, and smart: how often do you come across someone will all 3?

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1. All the time, most people are actually like that

2. Thats how my friends are, so often

3. All the time. All my friends for a start, and honestly a large proportion of people I come across.

4. Most people I know are that way.

   unless they are online****

   People are often different online.

5. Chill and smart are not hard to find. Genuinely kind? That’s rare.

6. You just described me. Forgot handsome, though.

7. What is so important about these Three?. Are these the traits of a friend, or SO

8. Never. Not even once.

9. Fairly often.

10. Every time I look in the mirror yo

11. My friends are like this. Why would I settle for less? I wouldn’t hang around someone stupid, or cruel, or uptight. I strive to be all of these things, too.

12. I guess I’m kind, the world has thrown me around and beat me up multiple times but I am kind to everyone I see everyday. Not because I have to but because I just want to be nice.

13. Very frequent in my world.

14. I believe most people are all three. A better question is, loud, entitled and violent.

15. Have yet to

16. I’m extremely lucky to have a boyfriend that is all 3 of those things, plus he’s tremendously funny 😄 I met him off of Facebook dating over 2 years ago 🥰 I could not have asked for a more decent man 💗💗

17. Thats me 50% of the time, other 50 im just kind and chill

18. Of course I know him. He’s me! … at least, I think he is. I don’t know how smart I am anymore to be honest.

19. Whenever I look in the mirror.

20. Every time I look in the mirror

21. Somehow I found that in my boyfriend/childhood best friend. But i mean, I’ve always found some kind people everywhere. Just depends on what you think a kind person is.

22. Very often, I work in engineering. I can name multiple people off the top of my head that I see regularly

23. Actually a lot of my girl friends are those 3

24. Maybe you end up being around who you are.

25. Not often. The last one I found friend zoned me

26. Twenty-five years ago, I met someone who was all three and more, we’ve been married for 23 years and he’s still kind, chill, smart and an absolutely awesome husband and dad.

27. I self select these people

28. never. i am not kind

29. Of course I know him; he’s me.

30. A fair amount. I wouldn’t consider dating someone who wasn’t those three things.

31. Only know 2 people like that, an old friend and my old math teacher

32. Never

33. Not often. Kind and chill are easy enough to put together and kind almost always comes with chill. Smart isn’t something that is percieved externally as clearly as people think, and there are many different intelligences so some will be more readily observed and accepted than others.