I am a 32 year old male and I’m decently attractive. I have had 2 casual hookups in my whole life and I think one wanted to date. I do live in a smaller town so maybe that’s it but I have never experienced this culture of casual hookups. All I see are women who want a life commitment after the first date. I’ve literally been asked “am I wasting my time” on a first date. My roommate also just had a similar experience.
Personally I don’t have a problem with hookups but I don’t see it. Maybe it’s me but I’m genuinely curious how people experience this so much.
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where you meeting these women? all i meet are women who say they want something serious but then when meeting up they dont know what they want or they get too busy and dont have time to date. its probably just me but who knows.
It’s not what i’m into. But I don’t see a problem with it if that’s what other people are into as long as they’re upfront about it
It’s both your age and it’s you, you must be a “catch” for lack of better words and women clearly are aware of it and want to lock you down fast.
How often do you go on dates?