For those who enjoy it, why do you like it when your partner slaps your butt in a non-sexual situation?

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1. It’s just a playful gesture, I see it the same as blowing a kiss or winking. I do it to him all the time too.

2. It makes me feel attractive and I am happy that he notices me. It is playful and it makes me feel that he is still really interested in me.

3. As long as it’s not inappropriate, like in front of our kids or in public then I’m generally down for pain of any kind, if she slaps my ass, rakes her fingernails over my skin or bites me that’s just flirting to me

4. It’s fun and playful. Plus, his hands are on me. And I ALWAYS love it when he touches me anywhere.

5. Foreplay isn’t just during sex

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7. My husband is an “ass man” so it usually is followed by some mild groping. It’s a sign that he finds me attractive. I agree that it is playful.

8. I just love teasing and being playful. Both my partner and I do it.

9. As someone who has not been getting any affection from their SO, a slap on the ass would be amazing to me. It would remind me that he finds me desireable, attractive, that he wants to touch me at any opportunity.

10. bc butts are squishy

11. It makes me personally feel like I’m still attractive for him and the intimacy of physical touch is their even if it’s not sexual.

12. It’s just nice knowing he still wants to flirt with me even after 9 years

13. Spanking is one of my kinks, so this is basically the kinky equivalent of casually kissing someone during the day without it always needing to escalate into sex.

14. It’s fun and playful. Plus it makes me feel sexy and desired.

15. My girlfriend is so obsessed with my butt that slaps, grabs, and bites don’t even register to my brain at this point. I like knowing that she’s enjoying herself.

16. It’s playful.

17. It’s flirtatious. Sexy time starts way before you even hit the bedroom. And he’s good at making it sting just enough but not too much.

18. It’s like a wink. It’s just a little, “Damn you’re sexy,” tossed my way. And I like the kids seeing us be affectionate. My parents never kissed in front of us or anything and when I had kids I had a hard time being a mom and being sexual. I don’t want my kids to go through that. When she was 10 my daughter told me that she knew what divorce was and that some of her friends had divorced parents but she liked that she didn’t have to worry about that because her dad and I flirt, so she knows we’re happy together.

19. Let’s me know that fires still burning. I do it to him all the time just because I like a handful of that rock hard butt, but for me it’s just a cute little gesture between us. Doesn’t mean he’s gotta bend me over right then and there

20. Mmm my man praises my ass anytime we’re walking up some stairs or i walk a little bit ahead of him on a stroll over to the cornerstore.. It makes me feel appreciated and sexy/empowered and the way hes so detailed in his compliments (godawwmm he makes me melt) .. And then when he does the ass smack followed by the quick gentle squeeze aaaaaaaaaa he makes me feel like a goddess 😭😭😭❤❤

21. I think it’s can be cute in specific situations like a cute little booty slap as a thank you for something

22. It’s flirty, makes me feel attractive and desired

23. It’s playful and I like physical touch.