Hi, Reddit! I’ve recently hit it off with someone and it’s been absolutely amazing. I get shivers only when I think of it – it’s pretty much all I think sex should be. We’re communicating well and testing how different things feel, but since I have anxiety in general, it got to my head that I want to keep in interesting, in a manner that’s not repetitive in nature.
So while everything feels and is great now, I guess the question is – how do you maintain the level of spice that starts off in the beginning? I don’t want it to seem like it’s always kissing & getting in the mood, then oral, then PIV – so I guess my question is: do guys get bored of following this order?
Of course, there are times when it’s me wanting to focus on him, so just going down on him and making him cum will be enough for me, or vice versa, but is there any particular way of keeping a guy on his toes?
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Here’s a list of things you can try:
– sex at the park at night
– sex in the woods
– sex in a tent at the beach at night
– bdsm — you tie him up, blindfold him, put a ballgag in his mouth and dominate him
– bdsm – he dominates you
– tantric sex — this one is amazing, you both get multiple orgasms
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Just try new things
We mix it up throughout the week.
* Slow, sensual sex
* Focusing on one or the other
* Playing with toys
* Exploring different kinks
* Having a quickie
Teasing or edging. Great fun. More and more pleasure slooooowly building, without that sweet release. Until in the end you grant it 😉 There’s a power trip in there somewhere too.