M22.
I need some advice on how to make friends & how to get a girlfriend in my mid 20s.
Backstory on me – I’m 22 years old. Turning 23 in January, I’m a musician & I play in bars at least once & a week & weekend. Sometimes 2-3 times. Ironically that doesn’t help me make a lot of friends or stir up interest in girls like you think it would. I’m also attending college but most in my class of 12-15 people are not my type of people, there also a lot younger, mix that in with the fact I’m not always there due to being in a bar till the wee hours, I’m not really making friends at school.
I’m from a small place & Tinder is nothing but the same people off & on, it’s becoming a sess pool of people sharing eachother, I go out to bars in my spare time as well but most of my friend are in relationships or have moved away & don’t come out. Leaving me being the lonely guy drinking to himself most nights which I can tell comes across creepy.
People have told me to start “going to coffee shops” as if I’m going to magically walk into somebody like a movie I don’t buy that. Plus I don’t drink coffee.
How the hell do I save myself from being forever alone lol
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I have a similar issue as a 23F, hard to meet new people in the places I’m in. I’ve thought maybe going to new places and events in general might help. Especially things like volunteering where you’re going to be working with people one on one.