I (25M) have recently been going through a breakup with my ex (25F) and haven’t been myself lately. I’ve been keeping myself busy with two jobs and running whenever I can and today I took a nap and woke up to a nude from my ex and her message after that message was,” Hope you think about that ☝🏼 on your next tinder/hinge date”. I recently downloaded a tinder and deleted it the same day after I broke one night and checked her Facebook (used a friends Facebook) and saw her doing things with others. I even sent her proof the day I downloaded it. I don’t have tinder as it’s just not right for me after that day so I deleted it and don’t want nothing to do with it. Since then we haven’t talked only her sharing music suggestions to me. And I’ll do the same. I’m just confused on everything.. Can anyone suggest what she wants after sending me a nude with that message when I don’t have any dating apps, don’t have any social media, or anyway to find woman to date or whatever? It just has me confused atm
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Dude, why haven’t you blocked her contact yet?
This is the kind of girl that knows she can fuck with your mind by gaslighting you with behavior like that.
Do yourself a favor and never let someone like that get in your mind. As long as she has any way of contacting you, she can disrupt your self-confidence.
I can tell you that, as I also have recently broken up, and after I knew what she had done, why the fuck would I leave her the chance to mess me up with something like that.
Good luck buddy!
Kinda sounds like she’s trying to “twist the knife” to me.
If it’s truly over between you two, cut all ties and move on. You don’t need that kind of spite living rent free in your head space.
Best of luck OP!
Are you trying to be friends after breakup? If not why are you amusing her by having her as a friend. Ahe shouldn’t send you anything especially not nudes. If you are trying to remain friends then there should be aome boundaries like no nudes obviously no sex obviously and maybe no talking about anything romantic.
And you don’t have to rove to your ex you are over her by downloading tinder and sending screenshot. Take time to heal and get over her and when you finally do no need to tell her.
Wtf are you doing?
Stop sending her messages. Block her.
At this point you’re both just being cruel to each other. Why? Move on.