Under what circumstances would you ask a female out for coffee on a Saturday evening?

15 comments

1. If I knew her and had romantic and/or sexual interest

2. I mean, most?

   I guess coffee is a bit strange for an evening date. I like to think I Olán cooler dates than that.

   Regardless, as long as we are compatible-ish I’d go for coffee with a girl at any time.

3. on a date type circumstance

4. If I want to hangout with her for a date. You can get some good sweets and hot chocolate at coffee shops. No other reason I’d hangout with a lady solo unless it was for work/business.

5. I work late, so if i wanted to hang with a friend. Most people would only do this on a date though

6. Wtf, never. Saturday night is for adult beverages.

7. I am horny and want sex

8. I probably wouldn’t. If she’s free on a Saturday night, I’d invite her to do something more fun and involved. Coffee is a better weeknight date when you don’t have much time.

9. Alien invasion.

10. If I wanted to get to know her but didn’t want to commit to dinner. Probably equal parts of both, so beware, esp. on a Saturday nite.

11. Coffee on an evening? Never. Saturday night is for cocktails.

12. Seriously, stop calling them “females” – they aren’t livestock.

13. Never. Coffee dates are for daylight hours. Morning and early afternoon.
    The point is to get to know the woman in a relaxed atmosphere.

    If you do it in the evening it’ll come off as a bit sketchy.

14. If she’s a friend and I want to socialise or if I want to have sex.

15. 1) if I were off work on a Saturday night, which I’m usually not

    2) if I’m not enough of a handholdless foreveralone to where I refer to women as “females”