I (22F) had a date with a guy (24M) today from a dating app, who I have seen around church too and decided to match with because of that. I thought it went pretty well but I’m not sure. We have been texting very consistently for almost a week. The date started off super well and we both said we were looking for something serious. We asked a lot of questions about each other, held hands, and kissed a few times. He asked my boundaries, like if I was okay with him holding my hand or kissing and I said yes.
We ended up getting coffee and seeing a movie together. After the movie it seemed like he was a little tired or something. I am not sure but he wasn’t as energetic. It’s understandable because he does work nights. He gave me a couple more kisses on the way out though. I told him thanks for the date, that had a great time and we should do this again. He agreed and said he’d like that. He did not ask for my number yet though.
It’s only been like 15 hours since we last talked and he had work last night and wanted to nap a little beforehand, I haven’t heard from him on the app yet. He did pay for everything, even after I offered to get my half. I really want to see him again but don’t want to seem too clingy. I reached out this morning on the app – just saying good morning, thanking him for the date, and saying that I had a great time. How long should I wait? I’m so worried about guys ghosting after dates.
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So what you’re doing is you’re worried about losing out on this guy and are over analyzing this situation to high hell. If you wanna text him, text him. If you texting him less than 24 hrs after your date as opposed to more than 24 hrs makes him lose interest, there wasn’t really any interest there.
Remember, if someone is for you, you have to put a sizeable amount of effort in messing it up to mess it up.
Depends on the guy.. some like the attention, others dont. best of luck though I hope it all works out.