I’m not giving up on dating, I’m just sick of the toxic culture that online dating seems to perpetuate between all sexes and genders. It makes me sick to see how we date now, I was getting matches and nothing of substance was ever talked about, on top of that you have fake accounts that constantly hit me (I’m male) to buy nudes, to get on only fans, to add an insta account, or some sugar daddy bullshit that just makes me physically gag.
Then when you do match with someone legit, it’s like talking to a brick wall. For fucks sake I’ve had better conversations with bots. I’m not saying these people aren’t wonderful people looking for something good in their lives but the online dating scene is a sick puppy and doesn’t really condone good conversation or getting to know each other. It’s a meat grinder for both parties for different reasons.
Almost all my relationships have been found actually talking to someone, not texting or looking at a profile that doesn’t allow barely any sort of information regarding the person. Instead it’s quick one liners and tags. None of which really builds up to anything remotely needed to decide if I like the person or not.
It’s toxic as fuck, and I’m over it. I’d rather wait it out and find someone I mesh well with doing something worth my time and not being detrimental to my opinion of other human beings.
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This is the way.
Agree 😊
I also got off dating apps.. (f38) and I am bound and determined to get out as much as possible and be open, myself, and meet someone great organically.
I feel ya bro, hang in there. It also annoys me the girls that have their Instagram part of their bio. I learned to skip those profile. They are just looking for followers
I’ve only gotten 9 total matches on Tinder (3 of which are OnlyFans promoters) since I paid for Tinder Gold six months ago. It’s extremely demoralizing. Good for you for getting off the apps. If there’s an app out there that’s not terrible, I think we would all like to know.
If there is one thing I’ve learned about dating and relationships is- they’re not worth it. One big waste of time as you’re already experiencing yourself.
As a lady, I feel like men try harder? and respect me more when I meet them in real life vs online so I am on a hiatus from dating apps as well…
I’m going to attempt to look more approachable in public and not completely avoid eye contact with strangers so maybe I’ll meet someone organically soon
98% of these women are bots, scammers, influencers, OF sellers, and catfishers. It’s a mess out there. Talking to people IRL is almost impossible. You hold the door for a girl they scream “I have a BOYFRIEND!!!!!” in your face. Imagine trying to talk to one to make friends. I shudder at the thought. But fret not.
In 20 years Artificial Intelligence and the sex doll industry will have made great advances. Keep yourself healthy enough to live until then. Cyber Girlfriend Awaits!
You should try like eharmony or match – tinder and bumble usually end in hook ups
I met my wife on tinder, not everyone is that lucky. But yea online dating is shit