Hi,
I’ve (30m) been with my girlfriend (28f) now for a couple of years and our sex life has never been great. I always struggle with maintaining an erection during sex as I feel like I’m not getting any stimulation and barely feel anything. If she gives me a handjob or blowjob I have no problems with my erections, I also don’t have any issues when I’m masturbating. We’ve tried different positions but it’s the same and it takes me ages to cum and only when she’s on top. This has put me off having sex with her as I think it feels like a chore to both of us.
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See the FAQ about ED. It’s the best advice the community can offer.
Do you watch porn? how often?
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Sounds like death grip, which is thankfully treatable
Cut out the porn and masturbation. If you’re only doing it twice a week go down to one for a month or so then cut it out completely
Sounds like it could be ED, or, if it’s only during penetration, it could be because of death grip syndrome, or your mind is wandering during sex. If you are thinking about something else, your wood will start to go down. It can also be related to stress