So my bf and i have been together for a while and i love him a lot. Only when it comes to sex he wants it everyday. My sex drive hasn’t been the highest. Sometimes i feel like i have to do it just for his sake. He does not pressure me into anything but i still feel like pleasing him even if i don’t feel like it.
What do i do?
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Have you discussed this with him to let him know your libido is less than his?
If every day is too much, what frequency would be your ideal? Can you come to a compromise between those two numbers? Have you told him your libido is lower?
If you continue having sex that you don’t want, it will wear on you. Also, he WILL notice that you’re not into it. You need to get your communication up before resentments set in on both sides & your relationship crashes & burns.