He said he never wanted a relationship, and that he doesn’t believe in love. Why then did he ask me to be his girlfriend yesterday?

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1. He wants you to be his exclusive concubine?

2. Maybe you’re melting his stone cold Grinch heart.

3. You’d need to ask him.

4. Sex

5. He likes drama. Steer clear.

6. A lot of guys dont “believe” in love (or commitment for that matter) until the actually “DO” falll in love…you never know.

7. Be right back, need to consult the male hive mind real quick

8. Sounds like something you should ask him to explain.

9. Look between your legs. There, you will find the answer.

10. Two possibilities.

    Hes immature and didnt know any better.

    Hes using you somehow.

11. Manipulation. Anything that benefits him like sex.

12. He must think you’re worth it – don’t overthink it

13. If he asked you to be his girlfriend, that’s a good sign. It means he doesn’t want you to see other men and be monogamous.

    >He said he never wanted a relationship, and that he doesn’t believe in love.

    Men usually say this is they spend a lot of time with sex workers

14. My best guess would be he is using you to get something he wants or he was lying about the other stuff

15. I do not possess a penis but I will say that I use this line quite a bit and have had a few people in the past that changed that outlook real fast. Don’t overthink it and just roll with it, I tend to use serious words to combat my emotions initially or to be overly clear I’m not looking for a relationship but that can obviously change

16. How much time passed in between those two statements? Could just be that you are that awesome, and he changed his mind 🙂 it happens.

17. To reduce the risk of STIs

18. Option #1 Immature dumb ass, trying to be cool & aloof – failing miserably.

    Option #2 He’s using you for access to your vagina & by asking you to be his girlfriend he’s also hoping that you aren’t sharing your vagina with another dude (and not looking to replace his lame ass).

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    Do the world a favor, dump him and if he asks why than tell him you want a guy who does want to be in a relationship, who does believe in love and isn’t afraid to admit it. If he falls into Option #1, than it’ll give him a wake up call to stop being such a lame ass. If he falls into Option #2, you’ve protected yourself from a user.

19. Because there is a sad difference between wanting something and believing that it exists.

    Most people that have given up on things still want them.

20. Because his hormones got the better of him at last.

21. It depends on the tone he said it with. Saying it straight laced and saying it with a soft tone changes the interpretation immensely. The latter sounding like something out of a rom com

22. Ask him. If you guys can’t properly communicate then you have no business dating