Basically as the title says, my boyfriend is super into ass and loves positions like doggy and prone bone, im super into it as well and up until now I’d been super down for it until he talked about maybe trying it out while he fingered me the next time we see each other in that way.
When me mentioned it I genuinely just panicked, I’ve had a lot of body issues during my life but they have gotten significantly better, but I’ve always been insecure of having an ass and overall being slightly chubby and sometimes hairy(I’m gonna admit I don’t have eyes on the back of my head), from the front I was already embarrassed and ashamed because I could suck in my stomach and position myself to hide anything kinda ugly, but from the back I can’t really do that.
He seems really keen about it and he doesn’t suggest things he wants to do often so I feel bad if I ruin this for him. Any suggestions? Thanks
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Before sex, what do you do to relax?
Babe. Trust me. He doesnt care. We are all insecure about our bodies in some way. Just relax and have fun. Only do what you are comfortable with.
I don’t think he’d suggest things to do together if he wasn’t attracted to you as you are
I promise you if he’s asking he doesn’t care and thinks you’re hot regardless
As long as you’re comfortable doing this with him, then go for it, don’t let some insecurities get in the way, you’re the only one thinking about it. I promise you he’s not. He’s probably thinking about curb stomping babies so he doesn’t nut in 30 seconds
What is it specifically that makes you insecure?
If the cause for insecurity is hair or hygiene it’s easy enough to address. Get a mirror, take a shower, get comfortable and carefully shave away any hair and deal with hygiene issues you may have before sex.
If it’s just your butthole you’re worried about realize that while he *will* look at it, he won’t be lazer focused on it.
Dim the lights and try riding him when you’re doing doggy and all he’s going to see excitement and passion.
Sis, I’m here to tell you as a chubby girl with insecurities that he does not care. My boyfriend is fit and sometimes i feel like i should be samaller but he has reassured me many times that he loves what he sees. I personally feel way more comfortable when I’m smelling good and have everything shaved or trimmed, other than that, it is what it is and my mans likes it the way it is.
And i know yours does too, so don’t sweat it and enjoy it
I always tell my girl that she has a cute little butthole when we are doing it doggy style. She also has this little mini blonde hairs around there. Then I normally give her hug with my arms around her waist and tell that “I really love your pooper!” And then I fill her vagina full of cum. We’ve only done anal once while on Molly. Buttholes feel great! When her ass periodically gets a little extra chub I normally can stop my dick from being hard all the time. Your boyfriend probably loves your body and is stoked to spend time with you;) especially if you are walking around with his cum in you.
As a guy (27m) I’m just here to say we don’t mind some hair.
Everyone has hair on their body… if he’s attracted to you, he’s attracted to YOU.
He loves you as you are what’s the issue?
He thinks you’re beautiful, you have nothing to worry about. However, should it make you comfortable, just really dim the lights in the room.
My gf was exactly the same, and said she was hairy back there. I’ve never seen what she’s talking about, and I’ve literally had my face buried in it. So, you have nothing to worry about
He doesn’t care. If he cared he wouldn’t be there. He chose to be with you, so unless you have him tied up in the basement I think you can assume he likes your body the way it is.
We all have body issues, even guys. Except for that damn log splitting guy on TikTok, he probably doesn’t, but he’s the exception.
Stop worrying and enjoy life.