I need sex advice from more experienced guys

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1. Ask her what she likes. Ask her what she means by “fucked like a whore,” because for some women that means actually giving them money afterwards, while others might refer to being used, and still others might want to role-play as if you met as strangers.

2. Here you might find this helpful:

   -The G-spot is located 2-3 inches inside and upwards towards the belly-button. Slide your fingers inside, make an upwards, rubbing “come here” gesture with them, and a soft bump should tell you where the g-spot is.

   -Women are generally insecure/anxious about how their breasts and vagina look. Complimenting those helps to relax them and let’s them enjoy themselves more.

   -Women enjoy knowing they’re making you feel good. Moans, groans and grunts while you fuck them help with that. Every single time you slide into a woman’s pussy should be accompanied with a deep moan.

   -The more you turn her on and build up her arousal beforehand (edging) the longer and stronger her orgasm will be.

   -Pulling a woman’s hair from the edges is painful, pulling it nearer the scalp is more manageable pain wise.

   -Dirty talk can vary based on the woman. Some women like to be praised (e.g “your pussy feels so good squeezing my cock”), some like to be degraded (e.g “take it like the little cock-hungry slut you are”) and some like a mixture (eg “you’re such a good little slut, taking my cock all the way like this)”. It’s worth asking beforehand which one she would enjoy most.

   -Kissing a woman’s neck feels amazing for her, but only with wet lips. Run your tongue along your lips to wet them first before kissing her.

   -Be gentle when rubbing her clit. Too much pressure feels uncomfortable and can turn her off.

   -Don’t neglect her pussy lips, they’re also sensitive and rubbing, stroking and licking them can feel amazing for her

   -The undersides of a woman’s tits can be very sensitive, and again, get neglected too often. Rub, kiss and lick them in addition to the nipple play.

   -Her inners thighs are extremely sensitive, licking them is a great way to tease her and get her worked up before licking her out.

   -When licking her out, using the flat of your tongue is better than just the tip. With the wider flat of your tongue, your tongue touches more of her pussy with each lick and spreads the sensation over a wider area

   -Rubbing your shaft against her pussy can feel good too.

   -Wet your fingers in your mouth first before stroking/rubbing/fingering etc. As a rule, dry fingers generally don’t feel as good as wet fingers

   -If she’s about to cum, don’t stop what you’re doing while she does, and don’t change the pace, keep going exactly as you are through her orgasm.

   -In missionary, placing a cushion under a woman’s ass tilts it upwards, and the angle allows your cock to hit her g-spot on every thrust.

   -In doggy, reaching under her with a hand and rubbing her clit as you fuck get will drive her crazy.

3. The two most erotic things are safety and communication.

   So yeah the safer and more relaxed you can help her feel the more she can relax and slip into being aroused. So be super good about consent and looking after her and put her needs and safety above everything.

   And then yeah having nice long conversations about sex is awesome. Just sit down (it can be hot to make a rule that you’re not allowed to touch each other while doing it) and just talk about sex and the things you’re both into and what turns you on. “Would you like it if I did …” is a great question.

   Make it known that it’s fine if one of you likes something that the other doesn’t, there’s no problem there, what you’re looking for is the things you both love.

   So things like “Ok so you want to by fucked like a whore, tell me a bit about it, do you want me to push you up against the wall? Just take you? Do you want to feel like a plaything, a toy? Tell me the fantasy that most makes you feel like a whore. etc”

   Basically the hottest thing in the world is if a person you’re attracted to learns your deepest fantasies and then does them with you. So yeah if you can be that person for her it’ll be amazing.

4. Sounds like she wants it hard fast and rough