What’s a courting gesture that you would like to do, but are afraid it will be seen as weird?

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1. Flaunting my bright plumage.

2. [Dick in a box](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rt0spqQtMKg)

3. Drop a quarter in her nearly empty drink and say “hey that was my quarter!?”

   She says something to the effect to “why did you put a quarter in my drink?”

   And I say “oh so this is my fault!?”

   She says something like “yes! You put the quarter in there!”

   And I say “ok ok you win! I’ll buy you a drink! ;-)”

   I have the confidence to pull this off but fear it’ll be mistaken as me trying to date rape by putting something in her drink. That would be a horrible misinterpretation but also a plausible one.

4. Come show up out the blue. With flowers a box of chocolates, wine, weed, and a card. Just say “ Hey whenever you’re not busy here’s my card. contact me” and walk away.

5. Curtsy

6. I like to open the door of the car for her but i guess thats outdated

7. Going up to a girl and talking to her. It’s kind of awkward and I feel like nowadays most women don’t want guys going up to them to talk in public.

8. Kill a rival suitor in a duel

9. At a restaurant, I let my wife get seated first and simply put a hand on the back of her chair as she scoots in. It’s a throwback gesture, but my wife gets a little thrill each time.