So I think, I’m just a real asshole at times, I always overshare, even though I love hearing stories of other people… I think it’s because I’m so insecure, that I need other people’s opinions on everything and it’s exhausting. I try to distance myself from friends and it just doesn’t work, so, like the title states, anyone have some advice?
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Spend more time listening to others and get to know them more. Ask them questions that you genuinely want to know about. If you tend to talk too much maybe try thinking to limit yourself to talking 40/60 of the conversation (you 40% and whoever 60%) Or maybe put in a new pattern where you ask them 2 questions before you talk about yourself. I wouldn’t distance myself like you said, but spent time to know your friends and what they are going through. Sometimes you DONT need to give an opinion on topics they even talk about, all they want is someone to listen to.