Hi guys,
Recently went on 3 dates with a really cute girl. We had fairly good chemistry in person but we had a few differences in terms of background – she’s religious and I’m not, she’s fairly conservative (in a non-political sense) and I’m not.
Normally This girl isn’t normally my type, but after the first date, I could see she was intelligent, kind but still very open minded. We very quickly got very close physically during our 3 dates, but didn’t kiss until the third date because of her values.
By the third date, she was very keen to. And we had developed very close physical chemistry and interactions.
But when we did finally makeout, it was honestly a little awkward. Our kissing styles were just completely different – I thought that perhaps she hadn’t had a lot of experience kissing, but she also felt the same way.
I’ll agree that it kinda killed the mood,
But She suggested after that she thought we weren’t just compatible based on this kiss?
Is this actually a thing? Has anyone else had a promising date end poorly because of awkward kissing chemistry?
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I’ve had missed kisses. Drunk, sloppy kisses. Kisses that *started* with a tongue out. All kinds of terrible kissing experiences, especially on the first kiss.
Never met anyone that couldn’t be “trained” to kiss properly, usually within seconds and without needing to say anything. By “trained” I mean you find a measure and intensity that works for the both of you, and do that.
Just keep kissing, it’s the kind of thing that should work itself out. And if it doesn’t, rather than ditching an otherwise promising thing… perhaps *talk* through it.
Not *”Well, guess we don’t work, oh well.”* but rather, *”Here’s how we make this work. I’m not big on tongues to start, and when we get there don’t clean my teeth for me. What are your thoughts?”*
Use your words.
Not common but has happened.