dw he didn’t say anything to make me feel bad he was a very sweet guy. i just feel bad because how i was a few times throughout the date. for one i kept stuttering and mixing up my words. i tried to order food but the guy was wearing a mask a top of the room being very loud so we kept on going back and forth with a conversation and i confused the shit out of the server bc i kept mishearing him. ;-; i got a runny nose halfway through the date and it was embarrassing because i didn’t have a stupid tissue. and there were a few questions he asked that made me realize “wow i really don’t have my shit together in life!!” and that also made me feel horrible. i think i’m done going on dates for a long time -_- i feel like shit i thought ive come far with my social skills but apparently not
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While I’m no expert on this I feel like what made you feel so uncomfortable were things that your date gave little notice to.
It’s completely natural to be ashamed of some things and wanting to work on them but to stop dating I feel, it’s a bit excessive and counterintuitive. After all your date probably had fun and may have found these eccentricities cute. So keep at it.
If I really like someone and shes kinda making a goof of herself on the date it can kinda help me relax honestly. If shes not at least a bit nervous (about wanting the date to go well) – then I kinda might start to think she isn’t interested
>there were a few questions he asked that made me realize “wow i really don’t have my shit together in life!!”
Can you share what the questions were and his answers? I just wanna evaluate if I have my shit together in life, lol.