Ok so some context, my (technically unafishal) gf(19 fem) and i(19 demi fem) have been in a long distance relationship for the past 3 months(full relationship 5 months including the 3) now, and i’m starting to get a feeling that i have to break up with her soon, but i still love her and i can tell she still loves me but lately i noticed trying to keep it above the water properly is getting harder(because of some recent problems with mental health that i won’t go into detail about) then usual, im saying usual because we both have adhd and with that becomes problems with object permanence, so anyway back on track, how do I break up with her without severely breaking her heart? And should i? And if you’re wondering why technically unofficial gf and not just gf is that I’m a hopeless romantic in the way we can be married and I’ll still be confused(but i’m 90% sure she has called me her gf before).
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(a somery/tldr just in case)
my gf(19 fem) and i (19 demi fem) have been in a long distance relationship for 3 months and lately it has been harder to keep a float then usage, and i feel like i have to break up with her soon despite the fact we still love each other. considering the fact that we both have adhd, how do I break up with her without severely breaking her heart? And should i?