Hi, 26 f here.
A bit nervous to share, but also open to listen to feedback.
Most guys I’ve been with don’t last more than
3-5minutes, some haven’t made it past 1. I know all men usually can’t control that, but can it be me? I mean no one’s ever complained about sex with me and they seemingly are pretty satisfied afterwards.
Thanks in advance
Edit:
If I answered all y’all in the replies, it’d be very repetitive. So here’s details lol
I’m very tight. Some say tightest they’ve been with and that’s going off of reviews of men and women I’ve hooked up with.
I get wet to a thigh touch. Like soaked.
Thank you all for the replies and messages, appreciate it! And for the tips. Xo
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Does this continue on? Are you seeing the same guys more than once and it’s a thing that keeps happening with the same guy?
Because the first time MAY have been the first time he’s gotten laid in a while, and yeah.. that can make a huge difference.
Might just be the luck of the draw. Some guys will last long, some short, and some both or can’t even finish at all. Or you could just be amazing in bed
Doesn’t sound like you are the problem necessarily. Even if you are the direct cause, it would be because you were great at sex, which isn’t a negative.
My advice is to communicate. Tell the guys to show down and enjoy. Try some other stuff before penetration. Make sure you get yours first so you don’t end up disappointed.
I last forever when having sex, to the point where it’s incredibly annoying sometimes and a condom just makes it worse.
I had a hookup with a woman that said the same thing as you did, men just didn’t last with her and I was thinking I was going to blow her mind. With a condom on I lasted maybe 2 minutes. I have no idea why I couldn’t last and I’ve wondered about it off and on through the years. I’ve never had an experience like it since. So I would say that it’s very possible that it is you. But what makes that difference, I couldn’t say.
Depends really, if they have been extremely horny by you then they were going to finish quick, it’s definitely not you
Men will on average last 3-5 minutes and women 15-20 cruel joke evolution plays… so the length is normal ish cause…everyone knows men can go longer some times but those are “male trade secrets” 🤣🤣🤣 but fun aside yeah there are sprays the slightly numb so ya feel but little less. As for if it could be you I don’t know your past but it absolutely could be your tighter or like you do keels or maybe you just got really good “fuck game” it is possible. An ex of mine was like that and ya i push push sploosh lol no matter what you basically got the God teir sex and Vag cause the boys just can’t keep it together. Hope you find the answer your looking for!
Are you above average attractive?
Are you a very active participant in bed?
Do you use a lot of dirty talk or loud moans?
Are you fairly kinky in bed?
If yes to some of the above, it’s you.
Though on average men don’t last as long as porn leads us to think. I think it also depends on the type of men you date.
On average I’d say men last 7 to 15 mins. And it’s quite common to see men blow at 2 to 3 mins. 30 mins marathon men on the first load are quite rare.
Men normally don’t want to cum so quickly. But, rarely is the case.
If you’re looking for rational of it being good or bad? Consider it good. Because, the brain of a man just can’t accept a poor decision. It takes over every poor decision and punishes them. Almost like locking themselves in a room after a bad fart.
“Dude, you made this decision, now revel in it dumbass”
What’s your foreplay like? Do you focus on him just before putting it in? Going straight from blowjob or handjob to putting it in is a recipe for me at least to finish disappointingly fast.
I would say it’s most likely you.
No
First time is for him. Second is for you.