Females – do you tell your partner they are big to make them feel better?

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1. Dirty talk is one of the biggest things in the bedroom for me so yes, I make it very clear. I want them to be confident because it often leads to a better performance by them… 🙂

2. If they’re big, I tell them. If they aren’t big, I give them other praise that is truthful. They don’t need to be big to feel good. Most men know how they compare in relation to other men, and they’ll know when it’s a false compliment.

3. I only say it when it’s true. My current partner is big so I include it in our dirty talk. Men will know if I’m lying to them so I don’t do that, there are other things that can be complimented.

4. No. I rarely ever talked about his size, tho my ex partner was not small. It just wasn’t important.

   I don’t really talk during sex anyways.

5. I usually don’t tell them either way. If they’re *too* big, I’ll try to tell them. Most of the time I go for cowgirl anyway first, so I can try to handle too big guys with care, but I if I don’t tell them when they have a go, it can get weird really fast. Aside of that, it’s usually not a problem

6. Yes, but only when it seems like they’re fishing for that specific dirty talk. Otherwise, I stick to things that I consider to be true, like how hard it is, how it fills me well, how it feels good, how I want him to come inside of me, etc.

7. Find a way to tell the truth in a sexy way… current bf is big and he likes me telling him about it… previous partners liked me complimenting other things they were good at if size wasn’t one of those things.

8. I only give honest compliments, but tbh they aren’t really about size very often

9. I don’t say it if I don’t think it’s true, because personally it doesn’t matter to me, but I do think it boosts my partners ego and it’s true, so I say it 😊

10. My ex called me big and I thought i was bigger but I’m only 5.5 inches by 5 so maybe just be truthful

11. I only give compliments on things that are true personally. I see no point in lying to make them feel good about themselves when surely there’s something else you actually think about them that’ll do the job. Dick size is a very touchy subject for most people (even the larger-than-average ones) so I tend to not talk about it unless I know my partner is comfortable with it

12. I think “you feel big” and “you are big” can be different things. I know objectively that my fwb is average length and girth and he knows it too, but he still fills me up really perfectly