How do you approach a female in a public environment without being a weirdo or making her feel unease. When I see an attractive woman in a public area like a mall, club, or at a corner store I want to talk to her, but I keep overthinking especially in a fast pace environment. I want to exchange information and hope for the best that I can meet the same woman. I know my flaws, which I tend to overthink, I get shy (sometimes I don’t approach to a woman), and I don’t know what to say especially when I’m trying to give my informarion and giving a hint that I would like to have a date with that stranger.
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Make a general statement ask for advice. “Hey I need advice, does the sweater look funny on me” “Do you know where I can get a good salad around here?”
And then ask her “where are you from” and then boom you’re in a conversation
Step 1. You don’t.
Well it was much easier for me when I am out on a vacation compared to when I am in my routine life.
So, it all depends on the place and mood. If she’s out on a vacation or trip or club, you’ve a greater probability of hitting a conversation as she’s not busy and is in a fun mood. Unless she was already enjoying until you swooped in and stopped her fun or whatever.
In day to day encounters, the girl would most probably be out there due to some reason or task and won’t have time for conversation with a random stranger.