Wife has sex with me everyday, but never kisses me during it

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1. Sounds more like a chore to me. Obviously you won’t be in the mood for sex every single day. Maybe don’t have sex every day?

2. About the kiss, did you try to kiss her instead of waiting for the kiss?

   About the cum, what does she says? Did you try to improve your diet, adding pineapple, bromelain?

3. Two things: swallowing cum isn’t always hot, and kissing isn’t always fun. These two things are especially true if you’re having “maintenance sex”.

   Routine, expected, just part of the daily whatever.

   Maybe you’re less careful about your breath. Maybe the passion isn’t as high because you’ve been together for a long time and things have gotten stale. For me, swallowing cum is a very hot thing to do *when I’m very aroused*. Otherwise it’s like gargling someone else’s snot. **Not** hot.

   When was the last time you skipped a day? Went on a date? Bought her flowers? Made dinner for her, or gave her a back rub without anticipating sex?

4. I’m in same boat with the kisses I always remind her wheres the kisses

5. So asked my current girlfriend if she would be comfortable with me cuming in her mouth? I said I’d never done that and would be interested in doing that with her. She then told that she have a little trauma from guys not warning her when they cum or guys hold her head down. I told her ok no problem I won’t ask her about it again but I’m looking forward to when she approaches me to say she feels ready to try it with me. We left it like that for a while and then one day I texted her and said id be interested in making out with her while she has a mouth full of my cum. I kind of just throw that out there as something I’d be into down the line in the future. But to my surprise, she responded that she would be totally into trying that with me. So we where together we I suggested we try it and asked if she was still interested and she was. So I told her to lay on the bed when her mouth opened and I shoot my load into her mouth. When I came I shot multiple ropes of cum into her mouth. During I surprised she didn’t turn her head to avoid taking too much of my cum in her mouth but she took it all. After words for a split second I was stunned that she took it all and then before she has time to process that my full load of cum was in her mouth I started making out with her. We made out so much with my cum until we both end up swallowing about half of my load. Now we do this often and she swallows my load by herself. After talking to her about we have come to the conclusion that the reason she was so into this is because the way I reframed it. You see I took he idea of cuming in her witch is something guys do to woman and turned into something we did together. So by doing this I removed the misogynistic aspect of coming in her mouth. The same thing goes with anal. It’s common guys to ask girls if they can fuck her ass. This does not sound appealing to some woman. So instead I would say let’s explore anal pleasuring each in both are ass together. So what I’m saying is try to find a way to refram things in away she would like more. Find ways to take things that usually do to her and turn them into things you do together. Put on some soft sensual porn where they cums in her mouth and then they passionately make out with his full cum load in their mouths. Then start a conversation about that. But this is not a one-time thing but rather an ongoing conversation for the rest of your life.

6. How do you bring it up with her? Do you try to initiate and does she turn away? I’m a bit sensitive over my sexuality and if brought up in an insensitive manner or I’m caught off guard it hurts. I personally love cum, but I hate kissing. There is something about putting my mouth on someone else’s and spit and teeth that I don’t like. I’ll do it in the beginning because it’s expected but after that point I’d really just rather not.
   If initiating on your own hasn’t worked, I’d personally like if my husband would ask if we could sit down and talk about it, if he could ask me if I like to kiss, respect my answer (yes or no, if yes what can we do to kiss more, if no is this a deal breaker in the relationship, for us it wasn’t, and I do still kiss him, it just isn’t a frequent thing or last for long).
   I may get defensive if my husband was coming at me in a ‘you don’t kiss me/you don’t love me’ manner.

7. > Whenever I bring it up to her she just denies it and will argue over it so I tend not to say anything

   I think that is an excellent choice. It’s obviously something she does not wish to talk about, so if you can live with this, in return for an otherwise excellent sex-life, I would urge you to do so.

8. My wife has always disliked kissing and although gives great head will never swallow. However she has always been this way. I have even heard from an ex who agreed she was this way. So that part seems normal, but the whole fact she became this way randomly is a bit concerning. Is there any other big sign anything is changing?

9. My wife doesn’t kiss me at all during sex… she typically just wants me to give her my seed… no foreplay… which is our Main connection issue

10. Sex EVERY day is a chore.