So I’ve only had sex 4 times and the last 2 were quite intense which I liked but there’s one problem. When he is deep even though I like it my reaction for some reason is to push him out? The sensation is pleasurable but kind of weird at the same time? He asks me why I push him out but I have no idea since I am inexperienced. How am I supposed to finish if my body just pushes him off? It’s like it gets so intense that I can’t handle it. It doesn’t hurt and it feels good but it also feels wrong..I don’t know how to explain it…please help
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Does this feel like a reflex similar to when you’re tickled? The body is overstimulated and it reacts to remove that stimulation, even when it’s not painful or harmful.
Have you tried different positions? A different angle might provide a less intense stimulation that will build more slowly and be more tolerable. A lot of women don’t orgasm only from penetration either, and you may need some external stimulation to finish.
Try asking him to slow down or be more gentle. Communication is always a good thing.