So there is this girl i am seeing, we hangout have fun, even make out all the time. Basically we have all the steps before sex. I am hesitating to do so cuz when i tried to finger her, even though i didnt go deep, she said it hurts. Plus we had been in bed for more than hour and i had been making out with her and playing with her body, but she still wasnt wet enough.
Can someone tell me if thats some sort of medical condition or is it normal? Should i still go for it? Or forgetting about having sex with her is the best idea?
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Try adding lube next time you finger her. Start small with one finger before trying to go any further.
Make sure your nails are cut short and filed down to avoid sharp edges.
There are medical conditions that cause pain with penetration, and she should see a gyno if that is a concern.
Use lube and communicate with her. Does she have this issue usually? Is she tight when she fingers herself? Does she have any experience?
Lookup vaginismus and see if that might be what is going on with her. There’s ways to work on that, the vagina is a muscle, so there’s hope!